Tuesday, December 20, 2011

That annoying circumstances don't mean we aren't blessed. (My Christmas thoughts for you)





The Virgin Mary is one of my favourite people from history. Images of her serene and gentle face always draw me in and give me a sense of being more grounded and trusting. One of the best lessons she brings is that aggravating daily circumstances are not a sign that we're not blessed. When Mary told Gabriel, God's Messenger angel, "Let it be as you have said," I wonder if she knew all that would involve.

Imagine facing the sadness of having former admiring friends looking at you and whispering about the scandal you've been involved in, not to mention facing the real threat of being stoned for adultery by the leaders of her day. Months later, your circumstances involve a grueling trip for miles on the back of a donkey, which can't be much fun for a girl nine months pregnant. Then you're relegated to the straw of a stable to give birth and all you find is a manger in which to place your new-born son, who God has promised will be the Savior of all mankind. I can imagine myself grumbling, "You'd think after all I've been through, at least He could have arranged a comfy inn and trained midwife. Blessed above all women? I don't feel like it right now." Yet we know she was.

The principle operates in the lives of others. Although we know Ruth and Naomi were blessed when they decided to leave Moab to live in Israel, it didn't look like it for some time. Ruth still had to spend days gleaning grain behind the plows of workmen just so they wouldn't starve. And Joseph, one of the most hard-done-by people of all time, spent many of his prime years mouldering away in jail for a crime he didn't do. But was he blessed? Of course.

I think it's easy for us to operate with a twenty-first century sense of entitlement. It's fashionable in this day and age to want to claim our rights. This is the attitude that may make us grouchily assumed we aren't being blessed when we are, abundantly.

A few weeks ago, I met an old friend I'd lost touch with back in 1989. Her name is Judith and she'd been teaching me to play piano for awhile when I was a Uni student. I was sitting in my car reading, filling in time until picking up my daughter from an art lesson. Judith accidentally let her door hit my car and when she glanced over to say sorry, she stared at me and motioned for me to open up.

"Are you Paula? You haven't changed a bit since I knew you before (which was nice of her to say, seeing I was 19 back then)." She went on to tell me that she'd seen the story in the local paper about how I'd won the CALEB prize for faith-inspired fiction. She went on to say how it had brought back memories of old times and how fantastic she thought it was to see somebody with a dream manage to achieve it. When I told her that I'm married to a saxophone player in his second year at Uni and we're homeschoolers, she went on to say what a creative and admirable couple we are, that many people cop-out and miss the best in life, and our children have such a great example to follow.

Now, the thing is, I'd been sitting there feeling a bit glum because Christmas was coming, we were always broke, a few days earlier Emma had said, "I wish my parents had proper jobs" and I felt like a middle-aged, tired old failure and frump. By the time I'd said goodbye to Judith and given her a copy of "Best Forgotten" for old time's sake, my attitude had spun around and I started smiling and realising that perhaps we are blessed abundantly after all. I can't help wondering if such a chance encounter is far more than mere coincidence.

I think I've hit upon some of the cause of modern misery. God doesn't change! We know that much. What has changed, over centuries, might be our expectations and sense of entitlement. The natural fluctuations of life, which swell and subside like a wave, are the same as they have been since the world was put in place.

I wish all who read this blog a blessed Christmas.

10 comments:

  1. Wow thats cool about meeting a friend from years back and when you need it.
    Your daughter may think like she does now. I know from age 8 I had parents on the pension and from just before I turned 12 a single pension mother and I knew money was tight and I know there were times it got to me knowing we couldn't afford things but I also know its from that start I can budget and keep out of debt. Your daughter will appreciate the lessons when shes older.

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  2. Thank you for reminding me of all those great biblical examples of people who were definitely blessed by God, yet probably had their moments where they wondered ... just like I sometimes do!

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  3. Thanks ladies.
    Jenny, now that you mention it, I think it's already standing her in good stead for the future. She's a budding chef and I see her standing in the supermarket, comparing which ways of buying groceries are better value.
    Janet, thanks for the Footprints I've enjoyed all year :)

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  4. Thanks for the reminder, Paula. You're so right of course. We of the western world, even those in quite poor circumstances are miles better off than some folks in some of the troubled parts of the world. Let's remember those folks, and send our gifts off to our designated international aid organisation, and give thanks for every good thing.
    Bless you this Christmas

    Meredith

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  5. Happy Christmas to you too Paula, and may your family make some priceless memories this year!

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  6. Hi Paula. Great post. I only just read this yet last night I spoke on the high cost Mary paid to bring the greatest gift of all. All gifts come with a price. The gifts you are giving your children have a higher value than the millions of things that clamor to be bought from the shops that last such a little time. May God bless you abundantly this Christmas far beyond what you ask think and imagine. Xx

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  7. Hi Meredith, Penny and Jo,
    Bless you all this Christmas :)
    I look forward to all 2012 may hold for us all.

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  8. I always wait until I can give your posts full attention to read. I'm never disappointed!

    I like to think of an encounter like yours as God's way of letting us know we are on the right track. How wonderful to have someone compliment you when you need it!

    May you have a lovely Christmas and a fantastic birthday, my friend!

    Peace and Laughter,
    Cristina

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  9. Hi Cristina,
    2011 has been an eventful year that's winding to a satisfying close for me, and for you too I believe.
    I look forward to finding out what 2012 holds for both of us.

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  10. I too, always think of life like the swell of an ocean. There are peaks and troughs. We all have them. And sometimes negotiating the peaks can be as tricky as enduring the troughs. But the constant is the love of God. Love your work, Paula. xo

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